Monday, August 24, 2015

The three faces of tme...


Time, what is time?
It is a progress of existence and events in the past, present, and future regarded as a complete.
We think that it's unlimited, yet every second goes to the past and we keep doing the same "thing”. We don't value the time as much as needed. Indeed, we blame ourselves for the waste.
We repeat the same mistake without realizing how we lose our chance.
In my subjective opinion the time is equal to the chance; more time twice as many chances. The opportunity is equal to the chance, so the cycle goes.
We open the box of our past and realize how much "stuff" could've been done.
Yet the time is the best teacher. Yes, you may stumble and fall several times by hitting the same rock. There will be a time maybe the second, twentieth, that you will jump over the rock or just lift it up and put it away. Time is the best teacher and probably the most serious one, you don't pass the test -you fall hard, but as long as you're alive the chances that you will pass it are high. The most damaging failures for humans are the misunderstandings with others. Yet time is one of the main components of human relations. Time is a relationship itself.
What if we face The Time from a different perspective and look at It  as a family of three brothers\sisters (The Past, The Present and The Future) .Whether consciously or unconsciously we try to become friends with all three of them. The struggle is hard, yet impossible, since they are all different and each of them has their unique personality.

  • The Past is the tough one who is the oldest among the siblings,so she is the wisest. When she gets angry with The Present, reminds him of the mistakes he made and haunts him with that memory.
  • The Present is the younger sibling, yet the three of them usually change the roles since The Time goes on and they are directly moving through the cycle. The Present always tries to get the best out of everything, yet sometimes makes mistakes to the advantage of The Past.
  • The Future may be considered as the youngest sibling. She has the highest hopes and dreams for life. She depends so much on The Past and The Present and values their moves; her actions directly depend on her siblings' decisions.
The Time will always be a family with deep roots. Can we be friends with three of them at the same time or it's impossible? Each one of us is The Time and we keep the family of our actions in our mind and apparently in our heart as well. The heart probably gets affected the most since whatever is not in the power of mind is a weight on the heart's shoulders. 
Marie Sevs (Mari Sevoyan)

Monday, August 17, 2015

Is the Friendship between opposite genders a possibility?

                  

Can there be a friendship between a male and a female without any strings attached or is that a myth? Just like myths we try to believe in it's existance.
Why are we afraid to say that we like someone,are we commiting a crime?
Love is not a crime,it is a feeling that none of us can explain,sometimes we love and still dont consider it as it is.The things is ,we're afraid to lose "The perfect guy friend",if we ask them for any relationship advice,because we're afraid that they will change their mind about our  "Angelic" personality.
Does the friendship really exist or there's always a 10% chance that one of the parties will develop feelings. The friendship can exist since the opposite genders are good advicers for each other as they have different perspectives about certain things.And there always should be some kind of attractions between 2 so the friendship works.
They say "There are 2 types of girls for guys".
  1. The girls that they don't have a chance to be with(Date).
  2. The girls that they can be with(Romantically i assume)                          
Does this statement clarify everything?Of course it doesn't.
Does this mean that our guy friends are there because we dont't interest them?(As a female representative).Some define love as  passion ,some as care.So you can still be friends and care for each other and not "Love".It's actually easier to be friends with a guy then with a girl(Of course it depends on the mentality and culture)
Doesn't one of the parties  always have some sort of intentions?Do we discuss a book with the opposite gender  for the knowledge or do we flirt? Of course we can discuss a book for the knowledge yet we can flirt too.It depends from which angle we look at things.
No matter what the opposite genders attract each other,either subconsciously or not.
This question will always bother us ,because none of us can surely say if its a yes or a no.

                                                                                                      By Marie Sevs (MariSevoyan)















Sunday, August 9, 2015

The three types of girls


1)The romantic type-that searches(waits) for the perfect guy to come to her life and to  dedicate herself to him.To make a family and live happily ever after.
2)The career geek type-All her life she studies hard ,dreams of a specific proffession and spends all her time on making that Career Dream come true.She reads all books about the proffesion does research etc.This type of girls usually become the perfect business ladies,who stand strong on their feet and usually find the right,serious man by their side.
3)The free bird type-You may not notice this type as much as the romantic one.This type of girls usually go with the flow.Enjoy every second of their lifes by dating whoever they want, going home whenever they feel like,listening to the unique (Indie rock, jazz,hard rock)music.This type of girls usually become artists and have an eye-catching style.

No matter what is our type,we are all beautiful and unique and nothing or no one can change that.
                                                                                                                 By Marie Sevs(Mari Sevoyan)