Monday, August 17, 2015

Is the Friendship between opposite genders a possibility?

                  

Can there be a friendship between a male and a female without any strings attached or is that a myth? Just like myths we try to believe in it's existance.
Why are we afraid to say that we like someone,are we commiting a crime?
Love is not a crime,it is a feeling that none of us can explain,sometimes we love and still dont consider it as it is.The things is ,we're afraid to lose "The perfect guy friend",if we ask them for any relationship advice,because we're afraid that they will change their mind about our  "Angelic" personality.
Does the friendship really exist or there's always a 10% chance that one of the parties will develop feelings. The friendship can exist since the opposite genders are good advicers for each other as they have different perspectives about certain things.And there always should be some kind of attractions between 2 so the friendship works.
They say "There are 2 types of girls for guys".
  1. The girls that they don't have a chance to be with(Date).
  2. The girls that they can be with(Romantically i assume)                          
Does this statement clarify everything?Of course it doesn't.
Does this mean that our guy friends are there because we dont't interest them?(As a female representative).Some define love as  passion ,some as care.So you can still be friends and care for each other and not "Love".It's actually easier to be friends with a guy then with a girl(Of course it depends on the mentality and culture)
Doesn't one of the parties  always have some sort of intentions?Do we discuss a book with the opposite gender  for the knowledge or do we flirt? Of course we can discuss a book for the knowledge yet we can flirt too.It depends from which angle we look at things.
No matter what the opposite genders attract each other,either subconsciously or not.
This question will always bother us ,because none of us can surely say if its a yes or a no.

                                                                                                      By Marie Sevs (MariSevoyan)















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